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Continence and toileting

Reading time: 4 minutes Last reviewed: 8th May 2026 Clinically reviewed by The Dementia Service

In plain English

Continence problems are common in dementia, particularly in moderate to severe stages. Many causes are treatable. Practical strategies, environmental adaptations and NHS continence services support both the person and the carer.

The principles

Continence requires several functions to work together: feeling the urge to go, recognising what the urge means, getting to the toilet, undressing, sitting down, voiding, dressing, and washing. Dementia can affect any link in this chain, alongside age-related changes (overactive bladder, reduced capacity, prostate symptoms in men, pelvic floor weakness in women).

What is treatable

Several causes are reversible and worth investigating:

A continence assessment by an NHS continence service or specialist nurse identifies which factors are at play.

Practical strategies

Environment

Routine

Clothing

Continence products

Constipation

Constipation is very common in dementia, exacerbated by reduced fluid, low fibre, immobility and some medications. It contributes to behavioural symptoms and Delirium. Treatment:

When to seek help

For Carers

Continence problems are often the symptom that most increases carer burden. Practical help is available:

For some families, continence problems are the point at which residential care is considered. This is a reasonable response to a substantial caring demand.

Frequently asked questions

Is incontinence inevitable in dementia?

It becomes common in moderate to severe dementia but is not inevitable, and many causes are treatable. A continence assessment usually reveals what can be addressed.

How do I get continence pads?

Through your GP or NHS continence service. Many people qualify for free supply.

Should I restrict fluids?

Generally no. Mild fluid restriction in the evening can be reasonable, but daytime hydration must be maintained. Dehydration worsens incontinence and increases UTI risk.

When is a catheter needed?

Catheters are reserved for specific indications: urinary retention, severe skin breakdown, surgical aftermath. They carry infection risk and are not generally appropriate for routine incontinence management.

Why does a UTI cause confusion?

Older adults with dementia often respond to infection with behavioural change rather than typical UTI symptoms. New incontinence with confusion warrants urine testing and same-day GP review.

What to do next

  1. If new incontinence, request a urine test for UTI.
  2. Ask your GP for referral to the NHS continence service.
  3. Make environmental adaptations: lighting, signage, raised toilet seat.

References

  1. NICE NG97.
  2. NICE NG123: Urinary incontinence in women.
  3. NICE NG97 1.5 (community-based interventions).
  4. Association for Continence Advice.